Handbag for convenience
I have handbags for practical use, handbag jewellery, and even a beautiful Mirano glass handbag. I have never considered myself a fashion follower and not really keen on using them. Therefore, I couldn’t understand how I collected designer handbags. Handbags have always been for convenience rather than fashion. This is not just for shopping or social outings.
Think about when the fire alarm goes in the apartment complex. I need to have the usual keys, cards, glasses, phone, as well as passport (living in a country I am not a citizen of), torch for the fire stairs as the lights are often not working, mask in case caught in smoke behind elderly gentleman on walker, moisturiser of some sort for lips in the hot climate, drink – alcohol or otherwise, pair knickers in case out for the night. Also, if I could fit a seat in there I would to cater for lengthy waits for firemen to give all clear to return.
Not always designer handbags
Before collecting designer bags I used to have one handbag at a time, use it till it died, then buy another one. Usually black or brown leather so they went with everything. More often than not I would leave it in the car when shopping and just take my wallet and car keys with me. This may be because I also wasn’t a prolific shopper in my earlier years. I just hopped out of the car, ran into a shop, bought what I needed and back to the car. It helped I lived in a small rural town with no parking hassles. Furthermore we didn’t need designer handbags in the farm ute!
It all started about 10 years ago
I suddenly found myself buying handbags on a regular basis. It was somewhere around 20 in one year whilst living in Singapore. My friend and I even talked about me opening a shop when I went back to New Zealand as I had so many.
It seemed most shops in Singapore only stocked clothes for Asian sized women. As a larger size lady I had no interest in looking through the beautiful fashion stores or market stalls. I always came away annoyed I still hadn’t lost several kilos I had been promising myself since the birth of my last child 20 years earlier. So I think that must have set me on my journey of designer handbag discovery. I had to shop for something walking through the countless Malls, MRT shopping Centres and various markets enjoying the smells and sights of many countries in South East Asia.
I don’t know how I got so many designer handbags
It started with quite ordinary bags but back then they were very nice for me to have as I had always had just the one remember. Then I progressed to designer handbags, not that I even realised. They almost became my souvenir of choice from various countries I visited.
The black shiny GUESS handbag I bought in Indonesia didn’t make the cut. It stayed in protective wrapping for about six years before going out in a garage sale. Not the destination a designer handbag would be hoping for is it? I was introduced to Jimmy Choo bags in Macau and promptly bought an over sized one which still is used occasionally. By the way, at the time I had no idea who Jimmy Choo was but my friend assured me it was a must have brand. Oh the benefits of having daughters to keep you up with trends. Also in Macau I picked up a beautiful Murano glass bag at the Venetian Macao Resort. Hardly useful but nice to look at. The only handbag which can’t wear out although it could break. I even tried to haggle the price down as I had become so used to shopping in markets when on holiday. I was promptly reminded by the sales assistant where I was and that it was NOT a market.
Carlo Rino, Louis Vuitton bags
I added to my designer handbag collection while passing through Hong Kong airport with a French bag, in Kuala Lumpur I bought two Carlo Rino shoulder bags. In Sydney I picked up two more – one for my sister and one for me. I have a St Louis bag from Singapore, also a Louis Vuitton pouch. There is one from Phuket and the obligatory elephant inspired cloth bag from Little India in Singapore. My favourite is the burgundy bag made of cowhide and purchased at Chennai airport on way home from long weekend in India.
Oh I also have a handbag pendant.
Designer Handbags for plus size women
When you buy a handbag do you check if it “suits” you? I must say with many of the purchases mentioned previously I completely forgot about whether they were suitable for me or not. After all I was buying brands, right. Hence some of them have hardly been used.
The Jimmy Choo bag I chose was conveniently large and soft but spread out across my body and added to my size – my perception at least. Cross the body bags can sometimes be too short in the strap and accentuate an already full bust area! On the other hand it is so good to have your hands free when shopping. It is also safer when travelling in some countries.
The pain of bags – not just designer handbags
It amazes me what some people carry around with them. They are just popping downstairs for breakfast at a hotel and they have a bag which seems to have all the fittings of their hotel room in it. Likewise they go out for coffee with friends and some have those large tote bags.
Consider the number of physio or chiropractor appointments women attend because of the way they hold their bags on the shoulders or the weight they carry in them. The shoulder freezes as it holds tight to keep the bag on. Think about it – the bag doesn’t sit on your shoulder on its own. You have to tighten the shoulder muscle to hold the bag in place.
Holiday makers carry handbags
I live in a coastal resort area now so observe holiday makers head out for their daily walk. Guess what? Some of them clutch handbags as they walk along the board walk! How many things do you need on a morning walk? I get it if you are staying in some scungy hostel where security might be dodgy but not in this location. Not to be confused with those who have a small backpack to cater for all requirements during their day walking and dining out, relaxing by the sea. I haven’t noticed designer handbags there so often though.
So I have this lovely collection of designer handbags which are seldom used but much admired. I no longer use those which will cause pain, both mental and physical! However I have many good memories of my travels.
What do you collect on your travels?